There are things about each of us we KNOW we are good at. I’ve got really nice teeth (never had braces!), God gave me the gift of public speaking and thinking on my feet, and I’m not gonna lie.. my children are BEAUTIFUL and PERFECT 🙂
There are also things we each know are not our strengths. Plants literally die in my presence. I am a junk food junkie (currently fighting the urge to eat Gardettos instead of apples). I CANNOT dance. At all. Not even a little bit.
There’s also this..
.. my posture. I HOPE that’s not the first thing you notice when you look at this wedding photo on my bestie Melissa’s special day–because SHE IS GLOWING! (And my other besties Jenni and Pammie are pretty dynamite, too!) But to me.. I just focus on my crooked-as-all-get-out-shoulder… just a glimpse into the poor posture and resulting slouch I’d developed after 20+ years.
Last summer, fearful I was going to be a hunchback before I turned 40, I finally sought out advice and found Dr. Vanessa Green at Elite Chiropractic.
Photos courtesy Elite Family Chiropractic
This woman has changed my life. At my first appointment, x-rays showed that I had a pretty severe curvature of the spine. What’s more, I discovered my chronic headaches, which I just chalked up to allergies, stress and LIFE, were NOT normal. I’ve been seeing Dr. G once a week ever since, and I truly FEEL a difference in how I view health, how I function, and how I carry myself on a daily basis.
NOTE: This is not a paid promotion, endorsement or advertisement for Elite Chiropractic. I’m simply a very happy client.. and this is all transitioning to a bigger story, I promise!
When I first read Allison Baird’s story, Dr. G was one of the first people I had to tell. I had NO IDEA what this beautiful young girl was hiding underneath gorgeous gowns and a dazzling smile.
Photo courtesy Jenn Cady Photography
“I was having severe back pain, went in for an xray, and they discovered that my curve had become 46-degrees and was congenital,” Allie told me recently. “Meaning, it was a birth defect so I wasn’t really a candidate for surgery or treatment, since they had found it too late. The doctors basically told me that I would have to live with the pain, and would probably not be able to do everything I wanted to.”
The Allie on the left is the girl I’ve known for about two years now.. the photo on the right shows what her spine looked and felt like within her body. Allie had been diagnosed with scoliosis at 13 and underwent physical therapy, but she had no idea how dramatic her problem had become. Still, that dire diagnosis from a doctor didn’t derail this incredible young woman from everything she intended to pursue.
“I smiled politely and said ‘watch me’,” said Allie. “Most people do not know I have it, strangers I meet on the street have no idea, and many close friends didn’t know for years. We all know someone who is struggling. We don’t always know their story, but to attempt to understand what that person is going through can mean the world. Now, I am so much more aware of those things, and I try my very best to have empathy towards others, but also not beat myself up too badly when it feels like I am nowhere near as good at something.”
THAT IS the Allie I know.
For several years now, Allison Baird has devoted herself to her community and others as a local titleholder in the Miss Nebraska’s Outstanding Teen program. Twice, she finished 1st Runner Up in the state pageant. To give you an idea of the caliber of talent and character in those years.. both of those winners finished in the Top 10 at Miss America’s Outstanding Teen. Each year when the other girl’s name was called, Allie conducted herself with grace and humility, being the FIRST to genuinely and warmly congratulate the winner (read more here!)
Without skipping a beat, Allie entered the first Miss pageant she was eligible for.. and in her first try, won the title of Miss Scotts Bluff County 2016.
“My mom is my best friend and definitely my role model,” said Allie, hugging her mom in the photo above, moments after winning the Miss Scotts Bluff County title. “She has been a serious source of my strength these past few months. I think I would have pulled all of my hair out and not had any fingernails if it weren’t for her! I truly wish everyone could have someone like her as their manager, friend, confidant and coach.”
And with that support system firmly in place, Allie began a nonstop year of appearances, college preparation, and activities as a senior at Gering High School.
Allie is a 4-time state speech medalist, she’s held lead roles in all of her school’s theater productions since her freshman year, she’s a nationally-qualifying DECA member, she’s captain of the Varsity show choir, and was a cheerleader at Gering for 3 years. An aspiring actor, singer, journalist (or all of the above!), Allie is also a news anchor for her broadcasting team, the Editor In Chief for her high school paper, she’s had articles published by her hometown paper, and she’s shadowed yours truly here at KETV.
Somehow, Allie finds time to volunteer in her community as Miss Scotts Bluff County, whether it be making quilts, donating blood, or simply making a child smile. She speaks to groups large and small about her personal platform, ‘Learning CURVE’, teaching courage, understanding, respect, value and empathy. Her favorite part of the pageant experience is Interview, the chance to tell a panel of judges about everything she’s doing.
“I truly believe this is where the magic happens at the competition,” said Allie. “When the judges get to see that spark of passion, that light in your eyes when you talk about what is so near and dear to your heart, there is absolutely no better feeling. Public speaking is a passion of mine, and I wish that Interview could be 20 minutes instead of 10!”
Public speaking is the ONE THING I promote to EVERY SINGLE CLASS, STUDENT AND INTERN who I come in contact with, and Allie Baird is a shining example of WHY that tool is so powerful. It’s a trait she credits to her participation with the Miss Nebraska Organization.
“The amount of self confidence I have gained from being involved in this organization, I will be forever grateful for,” said Allie. “I am not scared to talk to a group of CEO’s or a classroom of kindergartners because of the communication skills I have received. I have heard girls on the Miss America stage, and even the Miss Nebraska stage, articulate their opinions on hard hitting subjects with better grace and dignity than most of the [presidential] candidates. These ladies are the future. We want to make a difference. All of us have the potential, drive and work ethic to do just that. We breed leaders in the Miss America Organization, and I think that is pretty amazing.”
A final confession.. I am pretty ASTOUNDED by this young woman, and consistently shocked that this kind of maturity, intelligence, and independance are already so strong in a girl who JUST turned 18 years old. Complete disclosure, she may also be my little boys’ favorite, after staying with us during a trip to Omaha this fall and playing ‘Olympics’. Allison Baird connects with people, and inspires them. She works hard and stays humble. She stands tall, despite the things we don’t see that might break others down. That is the message she hopes to take across the state if crowned Miss Nebraska 2016.
Photo courtesy Morgan Wallace
“I want to spread awareness that if you are going through a personal battle, have courage and keep going,” said Allie. “Know that you are valuable and worthy and that a setback does NOT mean you can’t achieve something you want to achieve. It just means you might have to take a different road to get there.”
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WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ALLISON?
For more information about the Miss Scotts Bluff County Pageant, CLICK HERE to visit their Facebook page and HERE on their website. For information on becoming a contestant, contact Director Cheryl Engelhaupt by phone at 308-783-2940 or at 308-635-8615.
To read more about this year’s contestants, or the Miss Nebraska/Miss Nebraska’s OT classes of 2015 & 2014, click the THERE SHE IS link at the top of the page!